Food, Work, Fun

Saw a friend on a Sunday, Went to work on a Tuesday

and had a date on a Wednesday, and on Friday I was seeing the family.

I saw Maya on Sunday it has become like a weekly ritual, We went to the Toby carvery in Sheldon and spent roughly and hour and a half chatting about work and friends and life in general. We went to Lickety lick across the road for dessert. Maya had the Black forest Sunday as I ate hers last week, I had chocolate overload which wasn't amazing.

I love seeing Maya she makes me feel connected to my friends which is weird. She has seen them like 3 times in the last few weeks and I haven't seen them since January. I do wish things were different between us all but I just don't think it will happen. Maya is training to become a police officer, she is really enjoying it. I wish I had the dedication to do a job like that but I don't think it would suit me.

On Tuesday I had a very stressful day at work, the managers that weren't on shift were using my support staff to help with their jobs and I just felt honestly under pressure. I felt like I couldn't give 100% customer service because I was constantly struggling. I didn't leave work until an hour and a half after the bowl closed. I hope my next shifts aren't like this.

On Wednesday me and Sam woke up and went back to Star City which is the entertainment complex I work in. We didn't go into Tenpin as it was my day off. We went to watch Jurassic World in Vue cinema and because Jacy gave us vouchers we could go gold class which was epic. I have never done anything like that before, unlimited popcorn, recliner chairs WOOO. The nachos we ordered were rubbish, runny cheese sauce and salsa that tasted like it was watered down. Spending more on snacks than tickets I was a little annoyed and I didn't enjoy them much. 

Jurassic World was awesome, I am not a massive fan of the Jurassic Park films so I thought it would drag on a bit, It captured my attention and the graphics and acting were really good. I would happily buy it on DVD and watch it again and again. Sam also enjoyed it. After the Cinema we played in Fun Zone on some arcade machines. A Jurassic Park shooting game which Sam won BOOOOO, a racing game which I won YAYYYY and basketball game which again I won ha-ha Sam in your face. We did play some little ticket games and got 71 tickets which we saved for next time.

We then went for dinner in Oodles Noodles and the food was gorgeous but the only down side was the waiting staff, Our main waiter was lovely but some of the others were impatient. It wasn't  very busy yet I hadn't finished my starter and the main was brought out and the waitress was waiting to take my plate while I was still eating my food. It was all a little bit weird. I probably wont go back but the food was nice. Sam adds "and hot".

On Friday I spent the day mainly driving. I took Katie, James, Robert and Lucy to school. I bought Lucy home though because she wasn't feeling very well but she did clean the house and look after the dog. About 11 am me and Sam went to see his Mum at her kitchen in Bordesley Green. Then we went to Erdington to pick up his glasses and had a baguette from Greggs. I dropped Sam home and went back to pick Lucy up and we went to go and collect the kids from school. I bought her a little milkshake and chips from maccies to try and cheer her up.

Hopefully next week is a little bit calmer but more interesting. I doubt it.

Becky xx

Rain, Work and Birthday fun!

This week has been 

crazy! busy!

Sunday 

Firstly I would like to wish my Mum and my Nephew James a Happy 63rd and 6th Birthday for the 31st May which was a couple of weeks ago when this blog is published. I went with my Mum and Dad to a chinese buffet restaurant in Birmingham city centre (Town). We all then went to my Brother Chris' house to have a evening tea/finger food buffet to celebrate James' birthday.

Over the past few weeks me and my Dad had a plan to surprise Mum with a Kindle, I asked everybody to give Mum money in her card so we could buy a kindle with it. I pretended on the morning of her birthday to order a Kindle online. We all went out to celebrate her birthday, then to visit James. We came home and I had a birthday cake hidden in my bedroom which dad bought that morning, unfortunately I only had a big (if the electric goes) type candle for the cake. I lit it and took it in to her singing happy birthday. The look on her face was priceless!!!! 

About 15 minutes later there was a knock at the door (which was actually me pretending) a package wrapped in birthday paper had been delivered (from my bedroom) I took it into the living room and gave it to her, Wow that express delivery was super quick. She didn't believe me and she had no idea what it was, as she unwrapped the package she saw it was a paperwhite touchscreen Kindle. Me and my Dad gave my Mum the thing she had wanted for so long and her smile was worth it all.

Monday

So Comfy!!

New ankle boots just because.

I went to Sam's house to spend some time with him as he has been poorly (he has IBS) we went for a nice walk to Stockland Green which is about a 15 minute walk from his house. We were going to Subway for lunch but unfortunately it was closed. rather than walking back home we carried on to the Edrington high street as there was a Subway there. On the way my feet we killing me I get this friction burn/blister thing on the ball of my foot, so I had to buy some new/ more suitable shoes to try and help ready for the walk back.

In subway I had a new beef and chorizo melt which was really nice, I wouldn't have it all the time but maybe every now and again. it was a foot long on cheese and herb bread, it is a melt so it comes cheese and toasted, i have lettuce, onion, pickles and jalepenos and south west sauce. As part of a meal deal you get a drink with it so I had a sprite and an extra cool original bag of crisps which I ate later that evening.

Sam lives by the lake in the bottom left corner.

Me and Sam were walking back home from Erdington high street and it was raining a little but nothing too worrying. Roughly 15 minutes then the heavens opened, I felt like the sky tipped a huge bucket of water over my head. I was wearing dry weather clothes, leggings, a vest, over shirt and a larger over shirt. I was soaked. In the end we phoned Sam's dad Tony to see if he would come and get us luckily he did. I got back to sams and I put my p.j's on straight away and put my clothes on the radiator to dry.

Tuesday
Work day!!
I took my Mum to the Hospital to get her hand wax treatment, I only dropped her off as I had a few errands to run. I got back to the hospital in time to pick her up. We then went into Solihull Town Centre to have a little look around the shops and pick up the last few bits for Waffle (my friend)  as it was her birthday yesterday. I will see her on Thursday to have lunch, I am unsure where we are going.

The yummy little sweet shop in touchwood

Driving home from Solihull, along Lode Lane a tree branch fell off a tree covering both sides of the dual carriageway, I was only two cars away. After the shock of watching this happen, I am a new driver and I have never seen anything like this.Myself and  Mum took a little detour and on the way home due to the tree, Mum phoned the local council to let them know. We got home and I updated Facebook and Twitter just to let people know so they can avoid that direction.

This is the picture from the tree. I got it from Facebook on the
Solihull Updates page.

I got home to have a shower and got myself ready for work and left at roughly 4.30pm traffic was busy but because I went down all of the back roads I got there at 5.10pm which is 20 minutes before my shift. I was excited for this shift I got to see some old members of staff and some new ones. I started my shift and it was really quiet, it didn't pick up until between 6pm and 7pm my support for the shift was sent home to save money and I did struggle and needed a lot of support from my other team members.

This is what my work looks like.

Finally it was home time and I dropped Karime and Samira home so they didn't have to pay for a taxi, it is only 10 minutes away so I don't mind. I got home and I was exhausted and pumped because of how hard I was working. Poor Sam got a right ear bashing while he was trying to sleep. HaHa.

Wednesday
On wednesday I woke up quite early at Sam's after a late night at work. I took my car to have it's MOT which it failed (Oh great) luckily it failed on small things, my brake pipe was a little bit loose so the mechanic fixed it, my front passenger side light was to high and slightly to the left which the mechanic also fixed I had a jelly belly car air freshener hanging from my rear view mirror which is illegal and can get you 3 points on your licence so WATCH OUT people. Then me and Sam went to tesco so Sam could get some cheap smart clothes for an adventure we are having later this week and I picked up an outfit for our day trip next week.

We then went back to Sam's house and tried on all our bits and pieces, we did have to go and change Sam's shirt but in the end it fit. I left and went to pick Mum up to continue shopping and picked up my two dresses and blazer I pre ordered from Asda. I wanted a few accessories for both dresses so I was covered. Me and Mum went to Matalan to get scarves, socks and a new                                          bag.

I got home and tried on all over my clothes and yep one dress totally didn't fit and the other one was extremely tight. I dont have the time to exchange them and I refuse to wear an old dress so I will squeeze into this blue tight boob strangling dress haha. I bought some socks to go over the top of some boots and I am hoping I look cute. There will be a blog update on my Adventures blog  with  pictures www.memyselfandcrash2.blogspot.co.uk.

Becky xx

Fun in the park - Elmdon Park.

My brother Chris dropped me a text asking if I wanted to come to the park as he and my little people (Robert, James and Katie) were going around lunch time. Of course I said yes. I had to take my Mum to the hospital to get her hands waxed (arthritis treatment). I rushed back even though I needed lunch and I was meant to going to the shop. I couldn't not go and play. I phoned Chris as I got to the park to find out which bit he was at.

I rushed past the play ground which was full of people and over the bridge and amazing little stream. I followed the path until it started to take me the wrong way. I carried on marching up this hill on, the grass to get to them quicker. I don't think he told the lil peep's I may be going.

I tried to walk up the steepest hill which was a struggle because I am so unfit (I am currently trying to get more exercise). Trying to catch my breathe and sneak up the hill so they didn't see me was so hard. I walked through lots of trees with branches covering me from site as, I creeped around the corner Robert spotted me and started running towards me following was James and Katie. I got big hug and lots of Becky look at this.

We sat on the grass laughing and talking and I had some quality time with my Big Brother which is always great. The kids were trying to roll down the hill but ended up going around in a circle. They had a race the winner was Robert but James fell over and hurt his knee and Katie ran past the tree and just kept going. We then walked around the park talking and joking.

We walked down the steep hill I had walked up to meet them, Katie wanted to hold my hand even though I wasn't the safest on my feet due to wearing boots and the lumpy grass. We found a big log that must have snapped of massive tree. All the kids had a little climb, it's good to see them outside rather than seeing them on their Galaxy tabs.

We all went to the Ice cream van and they got an ice cream with sprinkles, a flake and sauce. It was all over their chin and nose because it was quite big. We took a slow walk towards the car as it was nearly time to go home.

To let Katie finish her ice cream as she eats slower than all the rest Robert got the ball out and we all had a kick around, Robert showing off his new football skills (he is really good) and we all had tickling fun. Me and Katie sat on the grass making a daisy chain (which she later threw on the floor) and we had a grass fight.

I really enjoyed spending time with them.. I took lots of photos hehe

Becky xx

Feeling Accepted

Acceptance !

I suffer with anxiety and panic attacks and at the moment I am having a little bit of trouble dealing with them. Different things can be the trigger for example, busy places, meeting new people, stress, and groups of people. This weekend has definitely been a test haha.

First my very very loud Dad came over which doesn't ever make me anxious because I am used to him and his loudness but I also had my friend Waffle coming over for a few hours. I always get stressed meeting up with friends because I am very conscious of saying the wrong thing and upsetting people. Waffle arrived while my Mum and Dad were out shopping for a cooker. I think because it was just me and her I was instantly calmer and she knows how weird I can get so she calms me herself. As the evening went on we just had loads of fun just like we used to when we saw each other every week.

Waffle cooking risotto.

I then went to see Sam's Mum Jacy and her husband Richie. I do dread speaking to Sam's family sometimes even though they have never given me reason to. I went in and I did feel a little anxious but I gave Jacy a little present I bought her while I was shopping and sat down. I could see that Jacy was shattered so I only stayed for about ten minutes. I am so proud of myself for going on my own.

This is an old picture but I like it.

On the Saturday I went to see my Sister in law Sue for her birthday and 4/5 nieces and nephew were there. I never feel anxious around them I just want to talk to them and play games with them. My Brother Chris on the other hand can sometimes get me a little bit flustered but I think that is more to do with our relationship being a little bit rocky.

Later the day I had a meal for Sam's dad Tony's birthday he is a twin with Ade who is Married to Rose, they have a brother called Michael and a sister called Debbie who is married to Pete and they have a daughter called Georgia and not forgetting the most important person of the family Ann Sam's Nan. It was in a big restaurant and it was very busy, we arrived late which always makes me feel a little on edge. After roughly 20 minutes I had completely calmed down and was making jokes and laughing with them all.

The reason why I have told you about this is, I never really feel comfortable in my own skin but so far this weekend I truly feel accepted and loved by them all. This is a HUGE thing for me.

Let me know if you ever feel this way? 

Becky xx

Meeting my Family

We are family.

I am basically going to be putting faces to names, letting you see the people I love the most <3 

The is my Mum, Angela Irene born 31/05/1952 in Kent U.K
My Mum is my best friend, we argue and fall out a lot but she is the person I
turn to always. She has 3 children Sarah (who was given up for adoption
when my Mum was 17) Christopher and Me.
Mum has several medical conditions including C.O.P.D and diabetes.

This is my Dad Stanley Smith born 04/12/1954 in Birmingham.
My dad is the person that annoys me the most but he is the person
who is most alike me and when we get on we get on amazingly.
Dad also has three children Tracey AKA trout, Hayley and Me.
Dad suffers with C.O.P.D and arthritis and soooo many more things.

This is my (half) brother Christopher David born 04/02/1972 in Kent.
My brother through all of my life has been my role model, the one person who
inspired me to be better than I thought I ever could be.
We don't speak to much not since 2012 but I see him roughly once every 2 months.
Chris has  enjoys football and golf.

This is my sister in law Suzanne Louise born 23/05/1976 in Birmingham.
I have known Sue since I was 8 years old and I remember the first time I met her
she had lovely long brown, curly hair. My brother asked my opinions on sue and she is in our lives
because when I met her she has cool high heels that I loved.
Sue works in hospitals as an accident and emergency nurse.

This is my niece Danielle Elizabeth, born 09/06/1996 in Birmingham.
I met Dani when she was two years old with amazing blonde curly hair and a shy at first
personality. I became besotted with Dani and although we are not blood
related I love her equal to her brothers and sister. She was my childhood friend and niece
all in one. Dani is 1/5 children.
Dani studies Animal care in Warwick and works at Pizza Hut when she is back in Birmingham

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This is my niece Lucy Rebecca born 25/04.2000 in Birmingham.
 I remember Lucy from a baby as I was 10 when she was born. She always had a cheeky personality and still
does with a side of attitude. Lucy is a loving person and enjoys
looking after people (the home maker).
Lucy is current at school and enjoys cooking.

This is my nephew Robert Christopher born 08/05/2007 in Birmingham.
Robert is athletic his current thing is body building thanks to Rocky. Robert has always been
above average with his childhood development. I enjoy talking to him about his interests.
Robert is in school and supports Aston Villa Football Club.

This is my nephew James David, born 31/05/2009 in Birmingham.
James is a very emotional boy, he feels things a lot and craves lots of hugs and kisses.
He at the moment like every 6 year old is obseessed with boobies, bums and poo. I spend a lot
of time playing with james and talking to him. James loves talking about the
future.
James is in the same school as his brother. He is in the red house called St George.

This is my niece Katie-Jane born 24/09/2011 in Birmingham.
Katie is hilarious and cheeky and reminds me a lot of Lucy. She loves pink and drawing,
everytime I see her she always mentions drawing or pictures.
Katie is still in nursery and has the attitude of a 16 year old.